Oct 31, 2024
Raising children is one of the greatest responsibilities. As they say, kids don’t come with instruction manuals, but little actions and behaviours of mothers especially, can leave a big impact. Here are 8 behaviours that truly help children grow with confidence and kindness.
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Kids love to talk, and often, they’re not just talking—they’re expressing their thoughts, seeking approval, and building confidence when mothers listen patiently, even to those long, winding stories about imaginary monsters.
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Mothers are the first role models children have. When moms follow the same rules they set—like saying “thank you” and “sorry,” helping others, or even finishing the greens on their plate—children notice.
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Doing everything for kids is tempting, especially when you can do it faster (and with less mess!). Encouraging independence, whether by letting them tie their shoes or attempt a new hobby, gives children the chance to learn and grow on their own.
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Mothers who help children identify their feelings and manage them are giving a gift that will last a lifetime. Rather than saying, “Don’t cry,” or “Be brave,” mothers can ask questions like, “How does that make you feel?” or “What would help right now?”
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Between work, homework, chores, and everything in between, life can get serious! Mothers who take time to have fun with their kids, create strong, happy memories.
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Children are naturally curious, and every question is a learning opportunity. When moms encourage questions (even the endless “But why, Ma?”), they support a love of learning and discovery.
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Simple practices, like saying what you’re thankful for at dinner or keeping a “gratitude journal,” show kids that there’s always something to appreciate. Children who grow up with this outlook are more likely to be optimistic.
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When mothers keep their promises, whether it’s as simple as “I’ll be back in 10 minutes,” or “Yes, we’ll go to the park on Sunday,” it builds a deep sense of security in their children. It’s these little acts of consistency that make children feel safe, loved, and confident.
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